See the person, not the dementia

The diagnosis of dementia is life-changing. But the person does not become the illness. That is why it is important that you don't treat someone differently because of the diagnosis.

What you can do

  • Listen to people living with dementia and their families to help you understand their perspective
  • Communicate directly with the person with dementia.
  • Be inclusive of a person with dementia when speaking with other family members or in a group. Speak clearly and calmly - so that the person has enough time to understand information.
  • Don’t assume that because a person has dementia they are no longer able to do day-to-day tasks or take part in social activities. They may just need extra support or additional time.
  • A person’s ability may change over the time of the disease, so how you engaged or helped last time may not be effective this time. You may need to change your approach.

Helpful resources to get you started